Hi everyone, so this is a little embarrassing to talk about but I really want someone else's opinion. Please be polite :)
(I apologize that this is rather a long read, but it'd really mean a lot to me if you read through :)
So, this guy.. He's really friendly, kind and not afraid to be a goof. He's also quite clumsy which I find rather cute, but that's besides the point! He also seemed like he was actually interested in what I had to say and he was quite supportive. We got along really well and we would tease eachother back and forth.
As well, I believe he was interested in me because he usually tried to find a way to touch me on the shoulder or keep me behind longer when we could've both just gone home. He seemed to really like being around me as well and would usually find a way to talk to me or laugh at my jokes.
He's one of the few guys I could actually picture myself going to the movies with or something 'date' related
But its been a while since we've talked face to face. We still kinda have this playful banter thing on facebook and we chat every now and then through our online school, but here's the thing.. he doesn't seem that awfully interested in talking to me anymore. I'm the one who initiated conversation on the school and at first he seemed happy to talk to me, but soon his replies were short and I was mostly asking the questions (just to keep us talking). His replies are very polite but it seems like I'm annoying him and he's just trying to be polite about it and not hurt my feelings. I have no idea what happened! We share a lot of interests and beliefs so I tried talking about that but, I'm tired of asking questions.. I would like for him to ask me some.
I don't want to be annoyance to him but I'd still really like to talk. I'd even be ok if we just remained friends, but of course I'd prefer if we could be more then that. Of course I realize this would be difficult over the internet..
I was thinking about messaging him 'I don't mean to bother you. If you don't really want to talk, just say so :)' Nothing rude, just a nudge for him to be honest..
What do you think? Please help me, I really like him but I don't know what to say to him because I'm scared I'll make him annoyed with me.
I just can't stop thinking about him! GRR I hate this..
I just would appreciate someone's advice. Please be polite.. it's hard to talk about.
Thanks so very much, this means a lot to me. :)
Answer on I'm so confused about this guy! PLEASE Help me!?
next time you log in dont write to him. he probably is usto you writing first so just let him see that u are online and dont write to him eventually hell write to you if he does like you and when he does tell him u are busy and give him ur number,
